Hanky Codes

History

The hanky code was originally developed by gay men as a method of communicating with potential partners in noisy bars. Today, it has been adopted by people of all orientations who are into some form of kink, fetish or BDSM. The use of the hanky code, also called flagging, does not necessarily imply that a person is looking for a partner, nor that a person is gay. It is simply a symbol of pride in one's self, and is a possible shortcut to get a fellow perv to say, "Hi!".

Directions

Fold the hanky of your choice into a neat rectangle, and tuck it in one of the rear pockets of your pants, leaving between half an inch and a full inch showing.

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Color / Fabric

Top (Left Pocket)

Bottom (Right Pocket)


Air Force Blue

Pilot / Flight Attendant

Likes Flyboys


Apricot

Chubby

Chubby Chaser


Baseball Cap

Coach

Jock


Beige

Rimmer

Rimmee


Beige Lace

Likes White Bottoms

Likes White Tops


Black

S&M Top

S&M Bottom


Black & Blue Checks

Boxer

Punching Bag


Black & Red Stripes

Vampire

Victim


Black & White Checked

Safe S&M Top

Safe S&M Bottom


Black & White Stripes

Likes Black Bottoms

Likes Black Tops


Black Lace

Brander

Brandee


Black Velvet

Takes Snapshots / Videos

Not Camera Shy


Blue & White Checked

Safe Sex Top

Safe Sex Bottom


Brown

Scat Top

Scat Bottom


Brown & White Stripes

Likes Hispanic Bottoms

Likes Hispanic Tops


Brown Corduroy

Headmaster

Student


Brown Lace

Uncut

Likes Uncut


Buffing Cloth

Polish My Boots

Bootlicker


Burgundy

Mudder

Muddee


Calico

Tourist / New In Town

Likes Fresh Meat


Camo Green

Seeks Military Bottom

Seeks Military Top


Chain Collar

Looking For Slave

Looking For Master


Chamois

Rides Bike

Likes Bikers


Charcoal

Latex / Rubber Top

Latex / Rubber Bottom


Cocktail Napkin

Bartender

Bar Fly


Coral

Foot Fetish Top

Shrimper (toe sucker)


Cream

Cums into Scumbags

Sucks Scumbags


Dark Blue

Anal Sex Top

Anal Sex Bottom


Dark Blue & Black Checked

Safe Fucker

Safe Fuckee


Dark Blue & Black Stripes

Bareback Fucker

Bareback Fuckee


Dark Pink

Tit Torturer

Tit Torturee


Dark Red (F)

Dildo Fucker

Gets Fucked


Dark Red (M)

Two-Handed Fister

Two-Handed Fistee


Dirty Jockstrap

Wears A Dirty One

Likes A Dirty One


Dog Collar

Dog Trainer

Dog


Doily

Tearoom Top (pours)

Tearoom Bottom (drinks)


Enema Nozzle

Enema Top

Enema Bottom


Fuchsia

Spanker

Likes to Get Spanked


Fur

Bestiality Top

Bestiality Bottom


Fuschia

Spanker

Spankee


Gold

Two Looking For One

One Looking For Two


Gold Lace

Involved But Available Top

Involved But Available Bottom


Gold Lamé (F)

Cutter

Likes to Get Cut


Gold Lamé (M)

Likes Bodybuilder Bottoms

Likes Bodybuilder Tops


Gray

Bondage Top

Bondage Bottom


Gray Flannel

Owns A Suit

Likes Men In Suits


Green & Yellow Stripes

Trainer

Human Animal


Green Lace

Mother

Daughter


Gun Rag

Gun Play Top

Gun Play Bottom


Handywipe

Gives Oil Massages

Wears It Well


Holstein

Milker

Milkee


Hounds Tooth

Biter

Likes To Be Bitten


Hunter Green

Daddy

Boy


Jockstrap

Wears One

Likes Jockstraps


Kelly Green

Hustler (for rent)

John (looking to buy)


Kewpie Doll

Chicken

Chickenhawk


Keys In Back

Need A Place To Stay

I Need A Ride


Keys In Front

Have A Home

Have A Car


Kleenex

Stinks

Sniffs


Lavender

Likes Drag

Drag Queen


Leopard

Has Tattoos

Likes Tattoos


Light Blue

Wants Head

Gives Head


Light Blue & Black Dots

Likes Black Suckers

Likes To Suck Blacks


Light Blue & Brown Dots

Likes Latino Suckers

Likes To Suck Latinos


Light Blue & White Dots

Likes White Suckers

Likes To Suck Whites


Light Blue & White Stripe

Sailor

In Search of Seamen


Light Blue & Yellow Dots

Likes Asian Suckers

Likes To Suck Asians


Light Pink (F)

Tit Fondler

Tit Fondlee


Light Pink (M)

Dildo Fucker

Dildo Fuckee


Lime Green (F)

Humiliator

Humiliation Bottom


Lime Green (M)

Dines Off Tricks (food)

Dinner Plate


Magenta

Suck My Pits

Armpit Freak


Maroon

Likes Menstruating Women

Is Menstruating Woman


Mauve

Likes Navel Worship

Navel Worshipper


Medium Blue

Cop

Likes Cops


Mosquito Netting

Outdoor Sex, Top

Outdoor Sex, Bottom


Mustard

Hung 8" or more

Wants 8" or More


Navy Blue

Fucker

Fuckee


Olive Drab / Camouflage

Military / Uniform Top

Military / Uniform Bottom


Orange

Anything Goes

Not Now, Thanks


Orange & Black Stripes

Rapist (Nonconsensuality Top)

Rape Victim (Nonconsensuality Bottom)


Paisley

Wears Boxers

Likes Boxers


Pale Yellow

Spit Play Top

Spit Play Bottom


Peach

Bear

Cub


Piece Of Studded Leather

Sash Queen (Titleholder)

Looking For A Sash Queen


Pink

Plays With Toys

Receives Those Toys


Pink & White Stripes

Likes American Indian Bottoms

Likes American Indian Tops


Purple

Piercer

Likes to Get Pierced


Rainbow Stripe

Pig Top

Pig Bottom


Rebel Flag

Fights To Be Top

Fights To Be Bottom


Red

Fist Fucker

Fist Fuckee


Red & Blue Checks

Furry Bear

Wants a Hairy Man


Red & White Checked

Brander or Cutter

Brandee or Cutee


Red & White Checked

Safe Fister

Safe Fistee


Red & White Gingham

Park Sex Top

Park Sex Bottom


Red & White Stripes

Shaver

Shavee


Red & Yellow Check

Gives Enemas

Wants an Enema


Red Lace

Group Sex

Group Sex Bottom


Red Sock

Foot Fucker

Foot Fuckee


Robin's Egg Blue

Sixty-niner

Sixty-niner


Rosary

Ritual Scenes, Top

Ritual Scenes, Bottom


Rust

Cowboy

Likes Cowboys


Saran Wrap (F)

Voyeur

Exhibitionist


Saran Wrap (M)

Mummifier

Mummy


Silver

Electrician

Shock Absorber


Silver Lamé (M)

Star Fucker

Star


Stethoscope

Doctor

Patient


Tan

Smokes Cigars

Likes Cigars


Teal Blue

Cock & Ball Torturer

Cock & Ball Torturee


Teddy Bear

Cuddler

Cuddlee


Terrycloth

Bathhouse Top

Bathhouse Bottom


Toothbrush

Lovers Out - Place OK

Your Place Only


Torn Blue Denim

Rough Trade

Sissyboy


Turquoise

Catheterizer

Catheterizee


Union Jack

Skinhead Tough

Skinhead Punk


Vacuum Cleaner Bag

Vacuum Pumper

Vacuum Pumpee


White

Masturbate Me

Will Masturbate


White & Multicolor Dots

Hosting An Orgy

Wants An Invitation


White Lace (F)

Victorian Top

Victorian Bottom


White Lace (M)

Likes White Bottoms

Likes White Tops


White Velvet

Voyeur (likes to watch)

Will Put On A Show


Yellow

Water Sports / Pisser

Water Sports / Pissee


Yellow & White Stripes

Likes Asian Bottoms

Likes Asian Tops